A Legend in My Own Mind
I always chuckle (and immediately stop listening) when someone says, “I know what’s best for you…” That’s nothing but blasphemous skepticism.
As children, we are told to reach for the stars and praised for our vivid imaginations. Whether it’s becoming a doctor or a superhero, we’re patted on the back and encouraged to pursue our wildest dreams. However, something happens as we transition from childhood to puberty…those grandiose life style choices become misguided and unwise decisions.
I am still devastated that my gymnast dreams were brought to a screeching halt because my mother was terrified my asthma would hinder my performance. (Who are you to judge me? Mary Lou Retton totally rocked and everyone wanted to be a gymnast in the 80’s!…see below for a special treat). As far-fetched as it sounds, she believed I’d have an asthma attack and collapse during my routine. However, these same lungs spent every Saturday at Dee’s Dee’s Dance Studio in tap, jazz and ballet clinics. I appreciate her looking out for my best interest, but come on mom, that was totally ridiculous. Granted, there is nothing wrong with following directions but there is no logic in dumbing down or following unnecessary rules to appease the next person.
It wasn’t until I started to live for me that I discovered that my inner voice always had the right answer. More importantly, I discovered that the road of life is a personal journey and the only person that knows what’s best for you is YOU!
Mary Lou is AWESOME!
As children, we are told to reach for the stars and praised for our vivid imaginations. Whether it’s becoming a doctor or a superhero, we’re patted on the back and encouraged to pursue our wildest dreams. However, something happens as we transition from childhood to puberty…those grandiose life style choices become misguided and unwise decisions.
I am still devastated that my gymnast dreams were brought to a screeching halt because my mother was terrified my asthma would hinder my performance. (Who are you to judge me? Mary Lou Retton totally rocked and everyone wanted to be a gymnast in the 80’s!…see below for a special treat). As far-fetched as it sounds, she believed I’d have an asthma attack and collapse during my routine. However, these same lungs spent every Saturday at Dee’s Dee’s Dance Studio in tap, jazz and ballet clinics. I appreciate her looking out for my best interest, but come on mom, that was totally ridiculous. Granted, there is nothing wrong with following directions but there is no logic in dumbing down or following unnecessary rules to appease the next person.
It wasn’t until I started to live for me that I discovered that my inner voice always had the right answer. More importantly, I discovered that the road of life is a personal journey and the only person that knows what’s best for you is YOU!
Mary Lou is AWESOME!
